When my guy joined the military it was one of the hardest things I had ever had to deal with, and I wish that someone had told be about what I was getting myself into when he left. So, to help those who are going to be in the same situation that I am in I decided to start this blog telling people about what it's like to be in this type of relationship. I will post new advice every wednesday (I want to make sure that this blog lasts a long time) and I am open to quesitons and suggestions just message me and I'll answer you within 24 hours. Good luck. Military Girlfriend Out.
Military Girlfriend
Anonymous asked: I don't mean to sound like a child but is it okay to be scared? I know my boyfriend and I have a strong relationship and I have no doubts about us getting through this at all but I just don't know what I'm going to do when he's gone... The day he leaves is just getting closer and closer and I just don't know how to handle it. Someone must have felt like this the first time their man/woman has left..
To be honest I would be worried if you weren’t scared. This is a very big and difficult step that you are going to take for your relationship. The day he leaves is going to be very hard for you, but I promise that you two will make it through it if you want to be together forever. I’m sure everyone who is in this situation is just as scared as you are. You will be okay, but just in case you don’t think you will be we are all here for you.
Military Girlfriend Out.
Here’s the thing. People who have been in a military relationship and have failed within that relationship will most likely want your relationship to end since theirs did.
I have a friend at work who divorced someone in the military. Whenever I start to talk about my relationship with my guy and she is around she snorts and laughs and tells me that it is not going to last. When she does this I try really hard to take a deep breath and act like she did not say anything. Sometimes that did not even stop her from talking about her divorce and how happy she was to be away from him and how everyone should be a single as she is forever.
To tell you the truth this is really hard for me to deal with, but I get through it by thinking about how much of a better relationship I have with my guy than she ever had with hers.
Do not let people like her get to you. They just want you to be unhappy so they can say “I told you so” and then feel like they are better than you. In the end it is your relationship that matters. If you do that you can easily prove them all wrong.
Military Girlfriend Out.
