When my guy joined the military it was one of the hardest things I had ever had to deal with, and I wish that someone had told be about what I was getting myself into when he left. So, to help those who are going to be in the same situation that I am in I decided to start this blog telling people about what it’s like to be in this type of relationship. I will post new advice every wednesday (I want to make sure that this blog lasts a long time) and I am open to quesitons and suggestions just message me and I’ll answer you within 24 hours. Good luck. Military Girlfriend Out.Military GirlfriendTumblr (3.0; @militarygirlfriend)http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/Why can't I reblog your answers. I wanna show my followers :(I honestly have no idea. I’ve seen that a couple people have re-blogged them before. I’ll see what I...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53256858165http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53256858165Mon, 17 Jun 2013 23:19:00 -0600Sex after he comes back is a must right? I don't think I'll be able to contain myself.Ha ha I wouldn’t call it a must, but it sure is something that is on a list of priorities. Military...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53253272997http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53253272997Mon, 17 Jun 2013 22:21:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardSo my guy had been in tech training for 3 weeks now! I thought that once he would be done basic everything would be fine because I would have him back! But he's alwys so busy!! And I don't want to make it sound like I want his full attention 24/7 but sometimes it just gets frustrating! I love him so much! And we will get through this but I'm just missing the times we had before he left!Ha ha yeah I’ve been there. One thing that always helped us was to set a day aside for just the two...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53252540200http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53252540200Mon, 17 Jun 2013 22:10:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardThis isn't really a question as much as it is a response to the anon asking if BCT graduation is ever on weekdays.. my boyfriend is currently at Fort Jackson and graduates on a thursday in july, and I've seen the 2013 graduation schedule that shows every single graduation at Fort Jackson this year is on a thursday. Just wanted to point that out :)Cool. Thanks for the info! Military Girlfriend Out.http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53252138183http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53252138183Mon, 17 Jun 2013 22:04:34 -0600So my boyfriend of almost 3 months will be leaving for boot camp in September I want to have sex with him before he leaves and I am a virgin and he is not and I don't know how to bring it up to him and since he is leaving I don't want to have sex and have it be only about sex I want this as a fond memory for the both of us and I just need some advice on if it would affect him on if I asked and how I should ask I love him so much and I just want this moment with himMaybe tell him what you just told me, and bring it up by saying something about how you want his...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53230776806http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53230776806Mon, 17 Jun 2013 17:01:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardboot campbasic trainingbasicmilitary lovemilitary soDoes basic training graduation always fall on weekends? Or do they have graduation during the week too?It is usually on a weekend, I think the only reason the wouldn’t do it on the weekend is if...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53230282878http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53230282878Mon, 17 Jun 2013 16:54:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardboot campbasic trainingbasicgraduationbasic training graduationHow long have you and your boyfriend been dating and what branch is he is? How often to you get to talk to him and see him?My guy and I have been dating for 3 years and he signed into the Army National Guard two weeks after...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53228406762http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53228406762Mon, 17 Jun 2013 16:27:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardIt seems like every young relationship is with people in the military. I know more military couples that are around the age 18 than people not in the military. Do you think the military has anything to do with people getting married young?I think that the benefits are strong enough for people to be tempted with getting married before...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53228030499http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53228030499Mon, 17 Jun 2013 16:22:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardmy Marine and I have been talking about getting married soon after I turn 18. this means my 'running away' because my family does not approve of young relationships-while his approve. at this point he will have gone through bootcamp and his training to become a parachute rigger and be stationed somewhere. he had purchased an engagement ring before we even started dating and I've never be able to be so open with a guy ever. I believe it's the best thing to do, for my and his happiness. Opinions?If you really love someone you should be with them, but if they are in the military you not only...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53227363537http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53227363537Mon, 17 Jun 2013 16:13:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardDo you think 2 months is too soon to tell if you want to marry someone? Especially a Marine? Its just something I know in my heart that I want to be with her for the rest of my life but is it possible or am I being a hopeless romantic?I think that it is fine as long as you are just telling her of your intentions and not asking her to...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53224474991http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53224474991Mon, 17 Jun 2013 15:34:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynaitonal guardair forcearmycoast guardbasic trainingbasicboot campmarriageHelp it's one of those days :(You can do this. I know that right now you are scared and lonely, but I know that your guy is...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53223982701http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53223982701Mon, 17 Jun 2013 15:27:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guarddeploymentbasicbasic trainingboot campMy Marine assures me that post-deployment sex, at least for him, is carnal and animalistic. I too have a few more months left. Trying not to think too much about it... but it's tough.Yeah I really think that everyone is different, and yes sex is animalistic but afterwards we were...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53223739761http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53223739761Mon, 17 Jun 2013 15:24:42 -0600The best advice you can give for someone waiting for their man to come home?That’s a really hard question, but the one thing that I wish someone would have told me when my guy...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53223263731http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53223263731Mon, 17 Jun 2013 15:18:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardbasicbasic trainingboot campdeploymentmilitary loveMilitary SOHow's the sex after the time apart?? Aggressive, gentle, mixture of both? Only a few more moths to go and my imagination has been running wild. :)Ha ha for me it was like all of the shit we had been through, all of the fights, missed calls, and...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53222189961http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53222189961Mon, 17 Jun 2013 15:04:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardMy girlfriend just left for basic today.. She'll be gone for 3 months. I miss her so much already. We've only been dating for about 2 months but we both are very sure of each other. I want to marry this girl. But it's so hard and I just wish she could be here. Advice on how to cope with it, and how to keep my relationship together while she's away?I always say that the best way to cope with being away from the one you love is to get your mind off...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53221946503http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53221946503Mon, 17 Jun 2013 15:00:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardbasicbasic trainingboot campExactly how long after basic is over do they hold graduation for national guards? And how does the graduation work, do they call their names like high school graduations?So the national guard goes to the same training as the army or the air force. If they are in the Air...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53220663174http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53220663174Mon, 17 Jun 2013 14:44:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardbasicbasic trainingboot campbasic training graduationMy Marine's gone. I can't talk to him right now and so I'm kinda lonely. I feel that my other half is missing. I find myself going out with other friends. Even guys. Like I go out to dinner with my guy friends even if it's just us two. I would NOT consider it as a date, but I'm just wondering if my guy would find it to be a slap in his face that I'm doing so. I have no intentions of being in a relationship with my friends because they're just FRIENDS.Everyone has a different idea of where the line of cheating is at. For us it didn’t matter if we...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53219212329http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53219212329Mon, 17 Jun 2013 14:25:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guardcheatingIf my guy serves for the four years he signed on for, is there a set number of times he will be deployed? He doesn't know much about how his time will be served, so I've been asking. Some people have told me he'll finish training, be deployed, come home for a short rest, be deployed again, come home and rest, be deployed, and so on until his time is up. Others have told me he'll likely only be deployed twice while serving the rest of his time at a base. I'm not sure who to listen to right now.To be honest there is no set answer. It is different for every person so unfortunately you will have...http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53150639426http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53150639426Sun, 16 Jun 2013 17:37:00 -0600militarymilitary girlfriendmarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycoast guarddeploymentPhoto<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d57d293619296f55ca55fb0315d4c93f/tumblr_moiaycMGaR1r9jmodo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53144609560http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53144609560Sun, 16 Jun 2013 16:11:00 -0600militaryMilitary SOMilitary Girlfriendmilitary lovemarinesnavynational guardair forcearmycost guardbasicbasic trainingboot campdeploymentYou once said that you did a small modeling gig. Do you have a picture?Ha ha alright here’s one of the pictures, but my face looks kinda funny: http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53141835943http://militarygirlfriend.tumblr.com/post/53141835943Sun, 16 Jun 2013 15:33:13 -0600