When my guy joined the military it was one of the hardest things I had ever had to deal with, and I wish that someone had told be about what I was getting myself into when he left. So, to help those who are going to be in the same situation that I am in I decided to start this blog telling people about what it's like to be in this type of relationship. I will post new advice every wednesday (I want to make sure that this blog lasts a long time) and I am open to quesitons and suggestions just message me and I'll answer you within 24 hours. Good luck. Military Girlfriend Out.
Dealing with being alone
No matter how much you do not want it to happen you are going to be alone while your guy is gone. There are some things that you can do in order to distract yourself for a while, but you do need to know that you are going to be lonely and you are going to have to deal with it.
I have talked a couple of times about things you can do to distract yourself and I will very briefly touch on those now:
- Video games
- Writing
- School
- Work
- Music
- Reading
Although these will help you there is a trick to dealing with being alone. The sooner you figure out that you can do things be happy with who you are without him you will not be bothered nearly as much as you were.
Sometimes the scariest part about your guy being gone is dealing with yourself. You get so used to seeing yourself as you and your guy that you forget who you are when you are not around him very often. Get used to who you are while he is gone and it will be easier for you.
Military Girlfriend Out.
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