It doesn’t matter how close someone may be to you they may not hold back when it comes to telling you that you need to give up on the relationship and move on before he leaves and you get yourself hurt. Some may say it from experience, others may say it just to be rude or to make you doubt your relationship. I am going to tell you something that is so obvious that it can and will be forgotten about if you don’t hear it from some one else at some point.
What people think of your relationship doesn’t matter. They may know you and your guy, but they will never know the relationship like you do. You and your guy need to be calling the shots, not them. I know that sometimes it’s nice to have a second opinion but in the end you need to be the one making the decision on how to control your life.
I have a couple friends who like to be involved in everyone’s relationship and always like to put their opinion into things so you can guess that as soon as it got to be time for my guy to leave they wanted me out of the relationship. I tried to convince them that it would all be okay but the only opinion they seemed to care about was there own. It got to the point where I had to tell them that it was my decision and that they needed to back off especially if they wanted to stay my friends. The result? Well one understood and we are now closer than ever. As for the other one… well lets just say we aren’t talking anymore.
This is a risk you may have to take if you want to be with your guy. Not everyone is going to be supportive of the two of you and you need to figure out where you stand as an individual before you can decide whether or not their opinions are helpful to you or not.
It will take some time, but hey you can do it.
Military Girlfriend Out.