April 2012
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Lying Recruiters.
My guy quit. He was going to MEPS the next day when he finally broke down and told me he was scared. He was scared because the RECRUITERS told him to LIE on his MEDICAL FORMS. Straight up lie. I went in there with him to talk to them about it and they bitched him out, calling him a pussy and not a real man for quitting. That they would never check his records, and that it didn’t matter he...
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Time to be alone
So I didn’t think I needed to talk about this, but I have had a couple questions on this so I figured I would cover it. I’m fine with talking about it so here we go.
So after a long day of working hard in basic and his further training he may want some time for himself. I know when this happens it really sucks, and you may start to get a little parinoid about whether or not he really...
March 2012
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Another Post from a follower
My boyfriend left 4th of January, he’s an engineer in the army and he’s fixing tanks out in canada at the moment. i live in England. It sucks so bad, he has finally got the flight details and they think it’ll be 19th April. Hope they don’t change it AGAIN. it’s not as bad because i get to talk to him on skype, the time difference is ridiculous though. Will be millions...
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Post from follower
My boyfriend left for basic March 5th and didn’t actually start boot camp until the 16th. And he’s said that basic is 9 weeks so I’m just trying to go along with everything but it’s hard and I’m so mad that he was stuck there a week before he even should have been because they “weren’t ready for them”. I’ve been looking for a job and trying to...
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Letters
So I kinda touched on this in various posts, but I have never really talked about it specifically so here goes. When your guy is in basic he will be writing you letters. At first this is really hard because you have to wait a long long time for that first letter. When he is in reception waiting for the week to be over so he can officially start basic he may be able to call you, but he may not know...
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Stress
When you are in a long distance relationship it is perfectly normal for you to experience stress, and not just from the relationship itself. When my guy was gone I had to work, go to my first year of college, try to find a new job because my current job was horrible, my dog died, my mom had surgery, and I had to drive my sister around whenever she wanted because she didn’t have a drivers...
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Attention Followers of Miltary Girlfriend!!!
I have decided to post my advice once a week in order to make sure that I can have this blog last as long as possible for those of you who need it. The post will be on wednesday around middday so keep your eyes open for it. :)
I will still be checking the blog every day so if you send me any questions or anything I will still respond and post as soon as I get it.
I just want to make sure I...
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The number one thing to help me pass the time
I have gotten this question so many times that I feel like I should officially post something about it. This way I can go into a little more detail and maybe help a lot of people by one post.
So what I did while my guy was gone was work and go to college. I worked as long as I could and as much as I could so I could get my mind off of him for a few hours a week.
I am always better when I am...
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Anonymous asked: Wow. I just read your entire blog and it has definitely helped calm me down. My man left 17 days ago for the army basic training and its so hard trying to make it through alone. My family doesn't understand and I haven't been given his address yet, so its been very hard. He has written me eight times while he was in reception, but he arrived at basic a week ago and I haven't heard...
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Question from a follower.
Well, I’m going to join the National Guard soon as well as attend a military college. I am a female but I am extremely worried about my future. Joining the military has been something I’ve always wanted to do, so I’m not doubting my decision. However, I do want to get married and have kids. You might not know what to reply to me but I was just wondering if you think it’s a...
