June 2012
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Why you?
I’m sure that over the course of your guy being gone you have started thinking about your relationship and what made him think that you were the one he wanted to go through this ordeal with.
You are probably asking yourself questions like:
Why does he trust me so much?
Does he trust me or is he cheating on me?
Am I strong enough to do this?
Will I get lonely enough to cheat?
These...
Anonymous asked: Where can I get any good shirts/hoodies supporting my soldier?
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He left on june 11th
I have been in a relationship with this guy for 4 months and i knew he would be leaving, but it was one of those things where it didnt get to me untill he was gone. When we first met I tryed not to fall for him but i did anyway. Im starting to get better with him being gone. and his parents have been keeping me updated but the first letter wont get here for another 2 weeks. The biggest problem is...
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Anonymous asked: So I've started talked to this guy, and I like him a lot! The problem is, he's shipping out for basic training for the Marines on Sept. 4th. Is it a completely stupid idea for us to start a new relationship merely a few months before he leaves? He's 18, and I'm only 16. Could we make it through? Also, how often would I see him? Thanks so much!
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Where his training is
Where a person is going for basic training as well as their training afterwards can cause problems for your relationship. Believe it or not I have seen many relationships end because of something that commonly happens in that particular state.
I have a theory to why this is and you can take it or leave it. Just like girls who go to Florida during spring break they change because the environment...
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Follower Question
In your experience how did your guy change while he was away at basic and AIT? Was it hard for either of you to transition when he got home? These are things I’m nervous about facing my guy leaving soon.
— youaretheworstkindofwoman
The biggest thing that changed for my guy was his patience. When times got tough and one of us was down we would be more likely to have a fight. After a while we...
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What are you most worried about?
So I was just curious as to what parts of your guys being gone you were most worried about. Feel free to join the conversation here or send me a message. I want you guys to see how you are not alone in any of this.
If you want your message shared tell me in it.
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Dealing with being alone
No matter how much you do not want it to happen you are going to be alone while your guy is gone. There are some things that you can do in order to distract yourself for a while, but you do need to know that you are going to be lonely and you are going to have to deal with it.
I have talked a couple of times about things you can do to distract yourself and I will very briefly touch on those now:
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Anonymous asked: the guy i'm dating is in basic training till sept. for the navy. before he left we established that we're "exclusive" and once he gets stationed that we'll become "official". I am 20 and he's 28, and his hopes is for us to date and then get married after the 5 years that he has to serve. I am in college and is adjusting to all of this. Long story short,...
