guitarxgirl asked:

As excited I am to have him coming home soon but we are still going to be in a long distance relationship but at least the distance is closer. So it makes me sad that I won't get to see him every day but at the same time I am happy that come the weekends I can go to his apartment and he can come to mine. School breaks suck but we can deal (Been dealing for the last 2 1/2 out of 3 years of being together). 6 months were long but coming to an end soon! 45 days!

Military Girlfriend Answer:

You got this!

Finding you

One of the hardest parts about having the person you care about gone is trying to decide what to do while they aren’t around, but to me what needs to be done first is for you to find out who you really are when you aren’t with them.

Now is the time to do some self evaluating of who you are with or without your loved one. If you decide that there is something about you that you don’t like that comes out in either setting work on trying to stop that from happening. The same goes for something that you love about yourself that may not come out in the other setting.

Self evaluation is the first step to being able to adjust to life without them and even when he gets back.

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Anonymous asked:

Someone told me you were an admin on milsorantblog. Is that true?

Military Girlfriend Answer:

That is not true at all. I follow them but I am not an admin or anything like that. I just like to laugh at myself every so often if the blog does come up.

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Anonymous asked:

So me and my (ex)boyfriend dated. Then he broke it off before boot camp although we both still really loved eachother. When he got out we reconnected. We still love eachother and we're currently working on things. Anyway while he was in basic I wrote to express my feelings. They were addressed to him but I honestly didn't think he'd ever get them. Well, he says he wants me to send them. He wants to read them. I'm sorta nervous though, but I think it'd be nice he read them. Should I sent them?

Military Girlfriend Answer:

I think that if you would like him to hear what you wrote then you should send them :) In the end it is entirely your decision and you should do what you think would be best.

Anonymous asked:

Pt. 1 I have talked to him about Skyping/Video Chat many times and he just doesn't want to do it. I have explained how important it is for long distance relationships but he doesn't believe me. His excuses so far have been: it messing up his computer, I don't have headphones, I hate talking with them. His computers newer then mine and I can run it no problem. His phone has skype but he refresues to use it. He has headphones because he was talking about them the other day via text and he hates

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Continuation:

talking in real life unless its about something stupid, anything important he just shuts down which is frustrating. We use to talk via Facebook chat but then FB chat became crappy and he refuses to use any video talking source. It makes me mad and doesn’t help with my separation anxiety not being able to see him or hear his voice. What do I do? I have talked to him but that didn’t work.

Response:

Maybe he just doesn’t like they way things like that work. To me if he is still talking to you then at least you will have that and maybe you can work something out to where you two talk on the phone every so often.

My guy and I never really got to Skype while he was gone because the reception where he was at was horrible and it always seemed like someone was listening in on the conversation. You may not be able to Skype but with Snapchat and other media avenues you can get that time in :)

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Anonymous asked:

My boyfriend is at fort Benning. Will he get his phone during the mid cycle pass?

Military Girlfriend Answer:

It is really up to the sergeant who’s in charge of him but it is possible :)

incase-you-forget-me asked:

I've gained 7 pounds since he has left for RTC (three weeks ago) My family did experience a death a few days ago, and everyone is sending us cakes and such, but I'm only 5'3 and 18, I already have an hourglass figure, I can't be too curvy! I can't stop stress eating!

Military Girlfriend Answer:

If you are happy with how you look that’s all that really matters :)

Anonymous asked:

Is it wrng for me to ask my SO to not have a friend of his visit him while were apart? She's very flirty with him and she always calls him hun and sweetie and like she's his only friend that I just don't trust. They never dated or anything but I just don't feel like I can trust her getting drunk in Vegas alone with him and her not crossing lines. So I want to know would it be overstepping to say I dont feel comfortable with her visiting him while were separated? We only have 5 weeks left apart.

Military Girlfriend Answer:

I think that it would be too much to tell him not to but I don’t see anything wrong with you telling him that you aren’t comfortable with her and that you would prefer it if he didn’t hang out with her.

In situations like this I think it is important to keep in mind that while she may try to overstep the boundaries your guy can easily put a stop to that. He doesn’t have to let things get to that point and if it does its not just because of her but him as well. I feel like if the two of you have made it this far and are committed to each other her being with him isn’t going to change that.

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Anonymous asked:

hi, i'm the aron from yesterday asking about the dates. I tried to talk to him to get a straight answer when he's leaving ait and he kept changing the subject. Do you think he is planning on surprising me when he comes back? I hope not because I hate surprises (and he knows that). I rather know when his flight comes in and pick him up.

Military Girlfriend Answer:

It’s possible that he is suprising you but it is also possible that he doesn’t really know the date yet or there is talk of something else going on. He may be avoiding the question because he’s embarrased that he doesn’t know the answer.

Hey everyone :)

I am home from work and I’m spending my night getting my hunting stuff together and playing Destiny so if you have any questions feel free and ask :)

I was also thinking about doing a topic tonight but I’m not sure what it should be. If you have something you would like to discuss let me know!

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iloveyoualwaysandforeverz asked:

Hey my bf is in bootcamp now and I wanted to get him something for wen he gets back. Any ideas?

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Watches can be great gifts for military members and if you get one that he can wear with his uniform he will always have something on him that will remind him of you :)

If anyone else has any ideas feel free and reply!

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Anonymous asked:

My boyfriend and I got in a stupid fight over nothing and he hung up without saying I love you, and he hasn't texted me back today. I know he will, but it's just the waiting and the anxiety. I can't take my mind off of it :(

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Take deep breaths. Maybe you should text him this morining saying you are sorry about last night and that you look forward to hearing from him. Something that shows him that you want to get passed this and that you care.

Anonymous asked:

Finally got my phone call today.. He couldn't call yesterday because he was on watch.. He sounds HAPPY to be there. Has a cold though:/ I cried like a baby when I hung up.

Military Girlfriend Answer:

There is nothing wrong with crying :) When my guy called while he was gone and for pretty much every letter I got I cried a little.

I’m glad that he is doing well there and that you got your call :)

radicalpixie asked:

My SO and I always make fun of each other! He had been putting on a little weight before he left for bootcamp, so I jokingly told him he was getting chubby, and without saying a word he just stood up, walked out of his house, went outside, locked himself in his car and POUTED! lol. I had to go out there and beg him to open the door! I like how fun our relationship can be :)

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Awe :) That’s so great!

Anonymous asked:

Do you personally think it is excusable if a girl cheats on her man while he is away for military duty? My ex-friend cheated on her man twice while he was gone, and she refused to tell him. When she did, he dumped her. She panicked and said "I do wanna be with you! I'll marry you to prove it." So here they are, they got married and now she's moving to another country with him because that's where he is stationed. What do you think about that stuff? Not once, but TWICE?

Military Girlfriend Answer:

I personally don’t find cheating excusable but if that is what they have decided to do then that is their choice.