raebabe16 asked:

What do I wear to family day and graduation day?! I'm so lost! It's gonna be nice down in South Carolina, mid 70's. Which will feel like 80 to me coming from up north! Any suggestions??

Military Girlfriend Answer:

The dress is pretty informal so as long as you are comfortable you should be fine :)

upscaleashell asked:

Do you think it's normal that everytime I come home from visiting my sailor I'm just pissed off the next few days because I have to come back here and live here for the time being. And calling this town home just annoys the fuck out of me after I come back from my future home. Lol. 😡😡😡

Military Girlfriend Answer:

I think it’s normal. Being with the one you love and then having to leave can be difficult. The nice part is the distance is only temporary and you two will get to be together again soon :)

Anonymous asked:

I don't think so either and I'm hoping he won't. Thanks girl.

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Anytime :)

Anonymous asked:

My boyfriend left for SOI this morning. I'm a complete mess.

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Take a deep breath. I know that it all seems really overwhelming right now but you can do this. Take the day and be upset, there is nothing wrong with how you are feeling.

If you ever need anything I am always here for you.

Anonymous asked:

I want to elaborate a little. he may not be on hold anymore but I doubt it's that. i don't know what's going on. We fought the other day then We talked and resolved things yesterday, but I kinda made the mistake of saying something I shouldn't of. (I'm on my period, and I'm seriously so emotional!!) but I told him I wasn't happy with us. And he said how so and I said "idk im just gonna lay down" we're texting but at this point I'm basically in and out of crying..

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Continuation:

I’m telling you my period makes me crazy! but he then said “sigh alright” and I said “I really don’t know what’s wrong with me or why I feel this way and I don’t want to just start naming things without thinking it through properly. are you happy?” and he said “sigh yea sure I’m happy..” that doesn’t sound too good.. don’t you think? and I said “why are you acting like that?” and he said “like what I answered you 😳” and I said “

"sigh yea sure I’m happy.." isn’t very reassuring lol is there something wrong I mean" and he said "no *my name* nothing’s wrong" and that’s it. that’s the last thing I heard from him and that was late last night. he usually texts me when he wakes up since he wakes up pretty early but he didn’t. and now it’s past 3 over there and I haven’t got anything. I texted him already. I feel so sad. and yuck. I hate when things are off between us. few days ago things were so perfect and now they’re not:(

Response:

I know that you are worried but I’m sure that he will contact you when he is ready and able to. Fights happen, but I don’t think he would give up on your relationship that easily.

Anonymous asked:

Yes I texted him when I woke up and then again a few hours later. :( he's been on hold so he's had a lot of time on his hands to talk to me and now today he hasn't :( Hope you're right

Military Girlfriend Answer:

If he usually contacts you and he hasn’t today I’m sure that it is something that is if his control. Maybe he isn’t on hold anymore as of today?

Anonymous asked:

I haven't heard from him all day and usually I do by now... atleast a heads up of where he's at/what he's doing or atleast a good morning text or something of that nature but nope. Doesn't help that he seemed pretty upset with me last night and we aren't on the best terms. :( I feel so yuck inside. And I don't know what to do. Today sucks.

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Have you tried contacting him? Maybe you sending a good morning text to him will get the ball rolling. If not I’m sure he will contact you as soon as he can he may just be busy today and hasn’t had a chance to contact you yet.

Anonymous asked:

Maybe helping people will also help you with your anxiety :) but just so you know, if I were to ever meet you in person, I'd give you the biggest hug and thank you for all the advice and different perspective you've given me and all others. :)

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Thank you <3

Anonymous asked:

My guy gets back from basic friday. On one hand I'm really excited and on the other hand I'm really nervous. We haven't talked much since he left and I'm afraid things are going to be weird between us. Any advice?

Military Girlfriend Answer:

What you are feeling is completely normal. You guys have been through a lot and being worried about something like this happens all the time. However, in the over three years I have ran this blog there have only been a couple times where someone has come to me and said that things were so uncomfortable that they couldn’t continue their relationship.

It may be awkward at first but it won’t take long for the two of you to go back to normal :)

Anonymous asked:

How are you able to help people like this if you have so much anxiety? It just doesn't make sense to me.

Military Girlfriend Answer:

I have anxiety about how people see me and how I see myself. It has manifested for too long and I am getting the help I need to overcome that.

Because I have the protection of a screen it is easier for me to reach out to you guys and help you but when people ask for my voice or even my face… I get back to a bad place.

I really appreciate the support everyone is given me and I completely understand your doubts and worries. I honestly wouldn’t blame you for thinking ill of me.

Anonymous asked:

He's leaving tomorrow for more training after his ten day leave. I already miss him so much. :(

Military Girlfriend Answer:

You can do this. I know that there is a long road ahead but if you two truly care for each other and are willing to work things out you will get through this just fine.

Take a deep breath and if you ever need anything I am always here for you :)

Anonymous asked:

Is it weird that I really want to date a guy in the military? I hear a lot of girls whos boyfriend are going to the military say that they want to leave him because they don't want to waste their time on someone who's gone all the time or its to stressful. But I would never do that, I would be there for him when he gets back and support him. Plus the uniforms are not particularly difficult on the eyes ;) and I feel like long distance can be a good thing, for the right people. One day...

Military Girlfriend Answer:

I think that some people would look negatively on it but if you fall in love for the right reasons and they happen to be in the military I see nothing wrong with it. Love should come first above a job :)

Anonymous asked:

Looks like my guy is graduating 3rd in his class from AIT but he's acting like its the end of the world because he's not first so he won't get anything because of it. Is being 3rd that bad of a thing?

Military Girlfriend Answer:

3rd is not a bad thing at all :) Sometimes in training they get so into the mentality that they need to be the best of the best and since third isn’t the best he may be down from it. Give it time, he will shake the feeling.

raebabe16 asked:

Just wanted to share some good news!! I'm going down next week to SURPRISE my boy at his graduation from basic! He has no idea! I can't wait to see the look on his face when he sees me there!

Military Girlfriend Answer:

That’s so awesome :) I am so happy that you are surprising him!

I did that with my guy and it is something that we will always remember.

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