I don’t post pictures of myself much so I figured I’d post a quick one :)

I don’t post pictures of myself much so I figured I’d post a quick one :)

Anonymous asked:

20 days till I'm reunited with my soldier ❤️ a little too excited for the homecoming sex lol

Military Girlfriend Answer:

You are so close! I’m so excited for you.

Anonymous asked:

What are your favorite books??

Military Girlfriend Answer:

  1. Water for Elephants
  2. Inkheart
  3. The Harry Potter Series
  4. Kite Runner

Those are my top four :)

Anonymous asked:

My boyfriend is in basic training right now. He's 17, he's gonna be in senior. Since he didnt finish high school yet, do you think he did the split option program?

Military Girlfriend Answer:

He might be. It just depends on how the military decides to do things.

Anonymous asked:

Did your man change a lot after joining? And if yes, how so?

Military Girlfriend Answer:

The biggest thing that changed for him was he planned things out more and he was less patient with little things like petty drama. They weren’t too big of a change but still something to get used to.

Anonymous asked:

So I'm making arrangements for my boyfriend's AF graduation... I'll be meeting his family there, as we are flying in from different states. I was planning on staying in my own hotel room, at the same hotel as his family, but his mother sort of insists I share a room with his sister or aunt (so I don't spend money I don't have to for another room). I feel uncomfortable with this arrangement, I kinda want privacy. What do you think? Should I stay with his family or get my own room? Thanks!!

Military Girlfriend Answer:

I don’t see any harm in staying in the same room :) It’s his sister/aunt which is a lot less stress as his parents and you won’t be in the room much anyway besides getting ready to go and sleeping.

You can also get to know his family a little without being completely thrown into it all.

Of course if you don’t want to do that you could always tell them that your parents booked you a room so you won’t be needing to stay with them. In the end it is up to you and what you are comfortable with :)

Anonymous asked:

How long was Shawn's letters to you while you were in basic? My boyfriend said his won't be very long because of the limited personal time

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Ours was a couple pages front and back. They would take place over the course of a couple days but they were great to have :)

Anonymous asked:

I just read on FB that sometimes they like to embarrass the recruits by reading letter from moms and girlfriends out loud and I got really scared because last week I sent out a letter with some pics of us because it was our anniversary and I thought it would be nice.. Now I'm freaking out cause you could kind of see the pics through the envelope and I was sappy and oh my gosh I just don't want him to get embarrassed!!! Ahhh haha! It's not really a question anything but I'm just super scared!

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Don’t worry too much about it :) They may read them aloud but at the same time everyone is getting embarrassed so it’s not too bad.

Anonymous asked:

To the anon replying to my ask about my SO's friend getting killed; it wasn't at basic training or anything like that...he is stationed at a base, and something happened while getting trained in the field or something of the sort. I wouldn't freak, I'm sure you love is safe and sound.

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Thank you for clarifying. I hope everything is okay.

Anonymous asked:

Why are stamps so expensive.... Lol

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Ha ha oh yeah but they are so worth it :)

Anonymous asked:

Is it weird to get couple pictures done? We aren't engaged, but when he is home on leave I want to get pictures taken in his uniform

Military Girlfriend Answer:

My guy and I took couple pictures last year :) I  think that if you want to take them then do it.

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Anonymous asked:

I'm really scared about how my SO will be when he gets home from training,and how our relationship will be.ive been having a really hard time but he seems great,and I'm just scared he will see me differently and find someone better and I would have wasted all this time for nothing..

Military Girlfriend Answer:

I think the reason he seems like he’s doing great is because he doesn’t have a lot of down time and everything scheduled for him. With you you don’t have someone planning your day so you have a lot more down time to think about things and be sad. It’s not that he doesn’t miss you just as much he just doesn’t have the time to be aware of it as you do.

What you are feeling is completely normal but in the over three years of running this blog only one person has ever come to me saying that they have changed so much that they can’t be with them anymore. They love you just as much as you love them and they are just as worried about this as you are.

It’s all going to be okay :)

Anonymous asked:

That anon about the guy who died at training just got me freaking out now. How do they get killed there? well I can imagine base on some of the letters I have gotten from my SO but still. After hearing that these next two weeks will be so long.

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Things happen in training if you aren’t careful. They like to watch them and make sure that everyone is following saftey procedures but accidents do happen though they are rare.

Anonymous asked:

This may be a stupid question, but can sailors take leave while training (not at basic, more like additional training)? It just seems weird that they could take leave in the middle of training?

Military Girlfriend Answer:

It depends on the training and what the policy is for that MOS. It is a rare thing but sometimes they allow them to. The biggest time you see it is around Christmas. A lot of times they let them come home around then :)

Anonymous asked:

Last night my SO texted me and told me his friend got killed on base yesterday. I'm so freaked out. I guess I never thought about these things happening while they're in training supposed to be safe. But he didn't even want to tell me what happened and was distant. I told him I was there for him and whatnot. When I told him goodnight I said I loved him and his reply was goodnight thanks. I guess I just don't know how to react. I'm worried for him

Military Girlfriend Answer:

Be there for him as he needs you and when he is ready he will come to you. Thinks like this can be scary and right now he just needs your support.

It is going to be okay.